Dear Charming Lady List members!

I am Natasha, Charming Lady manager. The subject of this my newsletter is the answer a question that you may have in your mind:

"Well, I like very much this lady (a few ladies) on your site and would like to get acquainted with her. What should I do next???"

Well, you have a few options, but the first move can be only one:

1. Purchase her address.

The next question comes to me from many men: "Will you give me her phone number (e-mail address)?"

You can find the answer of this question in lady's profile! Look! It's easy:

Open her profile and find the line "Her contact information available: ..., ..., ..."

  • If you see "Postal address" there, it means that you'll get her postal address.
  • If there is: "Address, phone", it means that you will get her postal address and phone number.
  • If there is "Address, phone, e-mail" it means that you'll get her address, phone number and e-mail address.

    However I must admit that very few ladies have e-mail addresses and not many ladies allow us to provide their phone numbers. You can ask a lady to provide this additional contact information to you when you send a first letter to her.

    As to the phone numbers, we have numbers of each our lady. However unfortunately not all ladies feel comfortable if we provide it to men. There is a question in the joining form for lady if she allows us to provide her phone number to men. If she says "No", I am sorry, we cannot break our permission and give it to you.

    However it doesn't mean that you will never get it :) Just write her a letter and ask for her phone number! She will give it to you most likely.

    2. The next move is contacting her and introducing yourself.

    Getting an address you may select any way to contact her:

  • regular mail,
  • our mail forwarding service. We charge $5.00 for the guaranteed personal letter delivery (no translation) and $10.00 if you would like to order translation of your letter.

    Our reply rate is very high (about 90%). The point is that there is a condition for women to enter our database: we require them to answer ALL letters that they receive. It is not hard for them as our girls receive very few letters (unlike those who are represented on a FREE for men sites). It is not rare case that our girl receives one letter only and in 8-10 months she gets married with this only man who wrote her. Well, we don't push girls to answer positively! We just require each letter to be answered, a man who paid for our services definitely has a right to know that she received his letter and her reaction is negative (for example).
    We remove profiles of girls who do not fill this condition.

    Except the high reply rate we guarantee a personal (from hands to hands) letters delivery. We don't trust our regular mail service and prefer to be sure that a particular lady REALLY received your letter. That's why we call her and ask to pick up the letter in our office.

    Sincerely yours,
    Natasha Varetskaya, Ph.D.