Dear Gentleman,

You receive this message because you are a list member of www.charming-lady.net - the agency that introduces Eastern European women interested in marriage. Our local officea are located in all cities we represent ladies from and every lady that you see on our site is known in person. We guarantee that each lady is AVAILABLE, and GENUINELY INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE. You may contact me, Natasha Varetskaya, in case you have any questions regarding any of my girls. I promise to see to whatever problems or doubts you might have.

So, if you are new to this search and don't know how to start... Your first question is likely to be this one: Why are there so many beautiful UNMARRIED women? Can it be true??? (By the way, take a look at our ladies. We submitted many new profiles last week! http://www.charming-lady.net/latest/

Believe it or not, but I answer the SAME question asked by my ladies clients! They cannot understand why there are so many singe men in the US and Europe! My answer is: demographical situation is opposite in our two Worlds and it results in so many free women here and many single men at the other end of the world! It is the basic reason... but then some other reasons appear that can explain the mutual interest of Russian ladies and Western men in each other.

So, you have made up your mind to start.

1. Visit the sites that introduce Russian/Ukrainian ladies. Just to look through. Form the personal impression.

2. Before starting to select try to locate a region you can visit in the future. Russia and Ukraine are very large countries and it can happen so that you develop relationship with a few ladies but won't be able to see them all! If you concider Ukraine, take a look at the map first and write down the names of the cities that are close enough to one another.

For example:

  • Southern Ukraine (Odessa, Nikolaev, Kherson)
  • Crimea (Simferopol, Sevastopol)
  • Central Ukraine (Zaporozhie, Krivoy Rog, Dnepropetrovsk)
  • East of Ukraine (Kharkov, Donetsk).

    Mind that it can take 24 hours to come to Kharkov from Odessa (one way only!!) and if you are going to stay for only one week, try to realize that you cannot waste two days spending them in trains).

    So, the sincere advise is: contact ladies who live not far from one another. One city is the best option!

    3. Examine all the Black Lists available to check:

  • the names of the agencies
  • the names of the girls you like.

    One of my previous posts was just about Black Lists and possible scams that you can be involved in. Be careful if you find the name of the agency or a girl's name in the Black Lists. Don't be the next one!


    >From my experience I can tell that most agencies unfortunately don't care to introduce only single or divorced women,
    >placing beautiful photos from model magazines... If you deal with the agency you are not 100% sure of, you MUST check
    >reliability of the contact information you received from the agency. As I have already explained some ways to do this
    >before, here they are again briefly:


  • try to get as much of the detailed contact info of a lady as possible. It is a “red flag” if the agency doesn't provide this information. Be sure they know the reason why they do this!
  • call a number you have. It is important to hear her voice at least (even if she doesn't speak English!) and the answer to the question: "Is it Olga?" - be sure that she WILL understand this question :))
  • If you have just address, try to find another local service that can contact a lady, preferably to VISIT her at the address that you have. The reason can be: hand delivery of the letter; flower delivery...

    By the way, we provide this kind of services (checking addresses, contacting ladies, taking photos, etc.) We do this all around the FSU.

    4. If you are sure that the agency is trustworthy you may move further.

    Make decision as to the way you want to meet these ladies. There are two ways actually:

  • write to 10-15 ladies, exchange a few letters and make first selection. Continue writing to 3-5 ladies whom you feel close to. Then make arrangements for a visit and meet them in person.
  • just come and meet them.

    However I DEFINITELY would advise you to exchange at least 3-4 letters before you come. You'll see how much it helps to make your contact open and sincere from the first minute you meet. Otherwise you have to spend lots of time to go through this first and difficult period of establishing relationship. It's more reasonable to do this in advance when you are still at home.

    Dear Friend, please, don't hesitate to write me about any problem, ask questions... It will be my pleasure to share with you my knowledge and 5-year experience.

    You are always welcome !!!

    Natasha Varetskaya, Ph.D.,
    Charming Lady Director.